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Chaunie Brusie

Mom | Writer | Nurse

February 12, 2016 By Chaunie

For the Days When You Hate Yourself as a Mother

I had one of those days yesterday.

A day when I was exhausted before I even stepped out of bed. A day when the demands seemed to overwhelm me. A day when when the sniffling noses and the whining and the car seat buckles against my numb fingers in the winter cold and the battles against the smallest, most ridiculous of things (like putting on toddler pants) seemed to build up a wall of bricks so heavy in my head I felt like I could explode.

Looking back, I’m so ashamed. I shake my head and think, how on earth could you get that mad at babies? How on earth can you not be a grown-up when they are so little? How can you be so horrible?

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The sad and scary truth is, I am a mother who has felt it—that rage and that boiling temper, that over bubbling of a yell so fierce it hurts your throat, and when it’s over, you’re shaking and wondering who you are and what just happened.

I hate myself in those moments.

I hate myself after those moments.

I hate myself just thinking about those moments.

But still, I have had those moments.

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  1. samantha says

    February 19, 2016 at 1:52 pm

    Thank you for being so truthful and transparent. I now know I am not alone screaming at my kids and then feeling like the worse mom in the world. It’s a hard job. So thanks again for writing about the real deal.

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Hi, I'm Chaunie and I'm glad you're here! I admit this blog is a bit rusty, as most circa 2010-blogs are, but like us elder millennial moms ourselves, I figure it can still get the job done, am I right? So here's the deal: I'm a mom of five kids, teen to toddler, I've been a writer for about 10 years, mostly penning health articles in exchange for money to pay my bills, but after I was laid off, I decided it was now or never and I'm writing my first novel in a month. And I want you to be part of the process with me. So subscribe and get weekly emails with my latest juicy drafts. It's going to be fun. Read More…

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